This. Is a PoV that I think gets missed too often in discussions of this type. Because it's just so true - just because someone thinks they treated a given issue in a respectful manner, doesn't mean people aren't entitled to be sick of seeing it. And quite aside from the incredible condescension of dismissing someone's point of view because they're "too angry" - who says someone is obliged to be all calm and unruffled when they've just been offended?