I like your definition. I just read a book call Church of Lies, by Flora Jessop which is about her forced marriage and lots a abuse that se and other girls suffer in some of the polygamist communities. It was pretty harrowing for her and the women & girls she helps guide to freedom. They certain didn't have the "free will" component. However this is lots of heavy isolation, abuse and brainwashing going on, so some may feel that they did make their own choices.

But I can't control all that.

Thanks for the thoughts on it.